Download the Household Labor Template
Printable worksheet with pre-filled task categories (daily, weekly, monthly, invisible) and ownership columns. Sit down with your partner and fill it out in 30 minutes.
Download the template (free)How to use it
Step 1: Go through the pre-filled list together. Add anything that's missing. Our starter list has 47 common tasks.
Step 2: For each task, one person claims full ownership. Full ownership means you notice it, plan it, and do it. No reminders needed.
Step 3: Accept imperfection. Your partner does things differently. That's fine. The cost of correcting them is they stop doing it.
Step 4: Check in monthly. "How's the split feeling? Anything need to move?"
Full system: How to Divide Household Labor Without Scorekeeping.
